Being a young, female adult, I have always had the desire of being able to call my boyfriend my best friend. I think this is a desire many young people face. Our society is so focused on love and the idea of dating, that we all feel so constantly pressured to quickly get ourselves into a relationship. Relationships that happen on the spur of the moment tend to not end too well, and I can relate to that. Of course I had my cute little relationships in middle school where I thought I was in love, but really, I had no idea what love even was or why I was in the relationship in the first place. This is all because I was pressed to believe that just simply being in a relationship made everything better. I never thought once about whether this boy was even right for me.